How to Choose the Right Toy for You (or You Two)
Choosing the right toy isn’t about experience — it’s about connection. Whether you’re exploring together for the first time or adding something new to your routine, here’s a simple way to find what fits you.
1. Ask yourself: What are you hoping to feel?
Do you want to relax and unwind, or add a spark of excitement?
- Soothing and slow? Try a massager or wand — it’s all about calm, steady rhythm.
- Playful and fun? Explore couple-friendly toys designed to enjoy together.
- Focused sensation? A suction or clitoral stimulator offers precision and control.
2. Think about comfort level
If you’re new to this, start simple.
- Look for smaller, discreet, or fully external designs.
- Choose soft silicone and quiet motors for a gentle first experience.
- Already comfortable? Try toys with multiple modes or explore remote or app-controlled ones for shared fun.
3. Consider the setting
- At home? Rechargeable options are perfect.
- Traveling or living with roommates? Choose compact, quiet, and easy-to-clean toys.
- In water? Look for waterproof designs (yes, they exist — and they’re amazing).
4. Don’t forget essentials
A great toy deserves great care.
- Use a body-safe lubricant (water or silicone-based depending on the toy).
- Clean regularly with a toy cleaner to keep everything safe and fresh.
5. Remember: There’s no “one right choice.”
The best toy is the one that makes you feel good — safe, connected, and confident.
Explore slowly. Listen to your body. And most of all — enjoy discovering what closeness can really feel like.
👉 Ready to explore? Start with our Best Sellers for a softer first step.